5 Things to Avoid When Writing Emails

5 Things to Avoid When Writing Emails

Good morning!

I’ve had a great week. I hope you have, too.

I took a copywriting class a mentor had recommended to me. I was surprised at how much I learned.

Here is a list of five things to avoid when writing emails that can apply to anything you write or create for your audience.

1.  A Narcisisstic Avatar

Have you heard of a business avatar? This is the person you imagine you are speaking to when you create content.

This was the most shocking tip.

Be careful you’re not just imagining yourself.

Your audience is not you.

Oh! Right? They aren’t exactly like me. What convinces me, what appeals to me, etc. will not be what appeals and convinces them. Not exactly.

Think outside your own imagination and be sure to include your audience.

How do you do that?
Study the market.

2. Being a Copycat

Do not copy an email that is not yours. Now, you might not plagiarize, but I know I’m guilty of taking a pattern and changing the words ever so slightly.

Hmmm. That won’t work.

People are getting to know you.

They will be able to tell if you’re being yourself or if you are imitating someone.

The way my class phrased it, “People are smart.” They can tell if you are like everybody else.

Hint, hint! That’s a sign you’re not being yourself.

3. Worrying About What People Think

This was the most helpful tip.

You can’t be worried about what people you know or even what strangers are going to think.

Why not?
If you are worried about what people are going to think of you, you will hold back.

Your audience will be able to tell. You won’t be convincing.

4. Paralysis by Overthinking

Do you know the phrase “analysis paralysis?”

I am guilty of it. I think through what I’m going to do and take weeks to get something new done.

I need to feel good about what I’m doing, which means think through all avenues and aspects, before I ever act.

This has failure built-in.

Not acting is not succeeding.

We’ve got to act and learn by doing.

Else, success will take too long.

5. Believing It’s a Gift

Writing business emails, copy, and content is not a natural talent.

Some people do have an easier time writing. This is true.

But it’s not something anyone is born knowing how to do.

Some children can sing. Some have an innate sense of rhythm and can dance.

You see the difference?

Even these talents have to be perfected with practice.

But content creation? That is a learned skill.

Unfortunately, and really, fortunately it is learned by doing.

Unfortunately, But Fortunately?

It’s great that we can all learn this aspect of business.

My first irksome thought, I must admit, was, “Oh, no!”

I must learn by doing. I’d much rather read books. Take classes. Think it out….

But that’s not how it’s done.

I’ve got to practice. Then I will improve.

Fortunately, I will improve.
It’s a guarantee that if I practice, I will get better.

Conclusion

So, there are five things to avoid: writing to someone just like you, copying someone else, worrying about what people think, overthinking, and believing you don’t have the gift.

What’s my plan? I was challenged to write every day.

I know that’s the best goal, but I honestly don’t have something to say every day.

I will send three emails a week.

I am going to write at least five during Mon-Fri. I don’t necessarily have to send them all. I might just pick a product and write an email for it. Just for the practice.

Did any of these five tips appeal to you? What helped? What didn’t?

Is there anything you don’t agree with?
Let me know in the comments.

Ciao for now,

14 thoughts on “5 Things to Avoid When Writing Emails”

  1. Hi Nakina – These are such great tips! I wish I would have seen them earlier in my career but I’m glad I’m looking at them now as they are fantastic. Some are a great reminder, but there is some very good information that I just learned by reading your post. Great job seeking help from someone who can assist you in getting better with your emails. I really do like your plan and probably need to adopt it some. Again for these tips and have a great week!

    1. I’m glad you liked it, Ernie!
      I felt the same. I wish I had known these tips earlier. As a result, I need to work on my automated follow-up sequence! I was glad to learn and share. Hope it helps you!
      Nakina

  2. Hi Nakina! I enjoy the simplicity of your post. Email marketing is a skill, for sure. Honing that skill (in 15 minute increments every day) ((see my blog post today)) would be a good strategy, too. As you mentioned, overthinking is an excuse for not doing “the thing.” But by daily action, we will get there. I am thankful for our community!!

    1. Hi, Kate!
      I will definitely check out your post!
      Yes, I’ve even heard of the idea of setting a timer for 15 minutes to complete a task. Knowing that the dreaded deed has an end is supposed to be very helpful in enabling focus and activity. I can see how that might work. I would use a timer in my classroom to keep things moving along swiftly. I will try limiting my writing to 15 minutes at a time and see if that helps. Thanks for the tip!
      Nakina

  3. Well done, Nakina. I often experience paralysis by overthinking. I love that phrase. Content creation is definitely a learned skill and apart from my Blog, I am finally starting video content creation and just have to do it and keep doing it to become better. I so enjoy your well-written posts. Keep it up!

    1. Oh, thank you, Jordan! I appreciate that 🙂
      Congratulations on your blog and starting video content. What platform are you choosing? Best of luck with it!
      Creating content is a learned skill, so that requires us to try and try and learn again. Well, here we go this week! Here’s to learning by doing!
      Onward and upward!
      Nakina

    2. Hi Nakina,

      This has great insights! The tip about avoiding a narcissistic avatar is a helpful reminder, it’s easy to forget the audience isn’t just like us. I also can relate to overthinking, but taking action is key. I’ve finished my 15-email welcome sequence, but I’d like to add more, so I’ll definitely try this approach. Your plan to write five emails a week, even if you don’t send them all, sounds like a smart way to improve. Thanks for sharing, and good luck with your challenge!

      Meredith

      1. Thanks, Meredith!
        So far, I’m doing well with my plan! Regarding the narcissistic avatar, the class made the point that you don’t want to miss the people who are a little different from you. I forgot to write that bit. If we only write to ourselves, we’re missing a wider swath of people. Good luck with your email sequence!
        Nakina

    1. Sure thing, Scott!
      The tips helped me a lot. It’s a good idea to read others’ emails. I read a few, but not too many. I could easily get bogged down in studying and not actually do anything with what I learned. The biggest thing I’ve learned from the ones I’m subscribed to is to keep it personal. They write to me as if I’m a friend and they care about me. It’s interesting to watch how they do that convincingly. I don’t think they’re being fake. They really care about each individual in their audience, and they can convey it without seeming fake. I want to learn how to do that as well.
      Here’s to learning!
      Nakina

  4. Thanks for that post, Nakina. Those five tips were spot on – but what helped me most was your, “Unfortunately, But Fortunately?” section. What rings out true no matter which online business model you go with – consistent repetition is key!

    I share your struggles as I’d much rather read books, take classes and think it out.
    Robert Klein recently posted…The Dilly Dally Dayze of MarketingMy Profile

  5. Hi Nakina,

    One of the things I’m trying to improve is to sound natural, as if I’m speaking to someone across from me. Sometimes, I have to use an application that will help me correct my grammar, but I try my best not to get it to the point of completely rephrasing my sentences. I try to sound like myself and hopefully I get better at it. Thank you for your post.
    Alberto recently posted…My Coaches Are Reviewing My Emails And My AdsMy Profile

    1. You are welcome, Alberto!
      One of the main points of my email class was that proper grammar is not necessary. You want to be understood, but your emails definitely need to sound the way you speak. So, good for you! It’s great that that’s one of your goals. I think their point was sincerity, and being genuine is so much more important than proper grammar.
      Hope that helps!
      Nakina

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