Game On!
My life has paused for a bit. I don’t like that phrase. I haven’t stopped. Life has just been different for a bit.
Now, I’m ready to pick up with my normal routine.
But I had a problem. I didn’t know where to begin.
Where to Start?
So, I asked for help. My plea to my mentors went something like this: I’ve lost momentum. I don’t know where to pick up. My mind is blank. How do I get started again?
Have you ever been there? You’re doing something creative, get off track somehow, and want to pick back up. The obvious answer is Nike’s, “Just do it.” While my mentor Glenn mentioned this phrase, he was kind enough to give me some practical advice.
Don’t attempt to do everything I would usually do all at once. Instead, pick a few things to work on and build from there.
Surprised? I was.
His explanation was I actually cannot pick up right where I left off. I had a lot of momentum behind me empowering me to follow a plan. By the definition of momentum, you can’t start cold turkey with that same spirit.
So, my plan…
- Do a blog talking about choosing someplace to begin. When I began from scratch, I began with a blog. So, I’m writing a blog.
- Next, I’ll do a YouTube short summarizing my blog and directing people to read it.
- Then, I’ll do a follow-up email letting my subscribers know I have a blog.
- And, next week, I’ll do the same.
- And, in a few weeks, I expect I’ll be doing more.
After all, we always start somewhere.
Conclusion
I can’t praise my mentors enough. Not only is Dean Holland always ready to give me advice, but so is his team. I’m approaching two years, and over this time I’ve often needed to ask a vague question of help! I remember the time I asked Sophie about feeling daunted by all the tasks I had to do; this time it was just I don’t know how to get started again.
How does one answer such vague questions? I think the reason Sophie and Glenn can answer these questions is because they speak from experience. They’ve been where I’ve been and they have a heart to help me.
I recommend asking for help whenever you need it.
Have you ever needed a reset? How did you gain your momentum back? Please let me know in the comments!
Ciao for now,
I hear ya on needing a reset Nakina. I too seek to get the momentum back. Today is the last day of access to the Affiliate System and Skool platforms. It was a good year of learning and implementing but it is time for me to get back to the basics.
First I will need to get going on the blog again. I spent considerable time moving content from one blog to another and now I am back to one blog. For this week I’ll just try to get the momentum back with blog hopping expeditions.
I’ll be watching to see how your mementum is picking up.
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Hi, Robert! It’s great to learn, but then we’ve always got to be sure we’re covering the basics, don’t we? LOL! It’s like a balancing act. I hope you had a wonderful week of blog hopping. Thanks for keeping an eye on me! I love to have accountability in place!
Nakina
Love this post! It’s so relatable—life throws us off track sometimes, and getting back into the groove can feel overwhelming. Glenn’s advice about starting small is gold. Trying to jump back in full speed can definitely lead to burnout (been there, done that).
Cheering you on as you rebuild that momentum—your honesty and determination are inspiring! Keep going, one step at a time—you’ve got this!
Thanks, Sarah!
I am keeping positive! Somehow, I didn’t do all I’d planned this week. I think I didn’t plan well, in fact. But I am determined to get back on track. Next time I’m in the groove, I won’t take it for granted! Keeping on, keeping on! Cheers, Sarah!
Nakina
Hi Nakina,
This post really spoke to me because I’m feeling overwhelmed too with everything that needs to be done and all the new things I’m learning. I’ve tried to get myself organized, but the overwhelm is still there. So, I’ve decided to do exactly what Glenn suggested, focus on one thing at a time and complete it before moving on to the next.
I think we’re a lot alike in needing a plan to follow. At least I know I work better when I have one. It’s encouraging to see how you’re approaching this, and it’s a good reminder for me to take it step by step. Thank you for sharing your process, it’s really helpful to see how others handle similar challenges. We got this!
Meredith
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Hi, Meredith!
I do need a plan! Having a vague idea of “Just do it” paralyzes me. Baby steps are the way to go for me. Do you know the movie What About Bob with Bill Murray? I rewatched it recently. It didn’t age very well, but the principle certainly applies. Take that first little step of what needs to get done, then the next baby step, etc. et voila! Success! We’ve got this!
Nakina
Hi Nakina, I like your plan very much! Simple and motivating, without overwhelm. Your coaches speak by experience. When we are ready to pursue something after a pause, it is usually because we have a regain of energy to do it. So we want to do everything at once and as a result, we get overwhelmed and we don’t no where to start first. This is where focus and clarity comes in to help.
Congratulations for getting back!
Martin
Hey, Martin!
I like your perspective. Regaining momentum is all about regaining energy—one little bit at a time. I tried to do too much this week and failed to write my next blog. I forgot my plan! Doh!
I definitely need to focus and keep clarity throughout the week. Love this perspective. Thanks, Martin!
Nakina
Hi Nakina – Sometimes a reset is the best medicine in what the doctor ordered. I’ve been falling you long enough to know which you’ll be back at it with full force soon enough. And with your little break and rest I bet you’re itching to see success and I will be one of the ones right behind you cheering you on. Have a wonderful and productive week!
Ernie,
You’re so encouraging! Thank you for cheering me on!
See you next week!
Nakina
Nakina we are so happy to have you back. We are always excited to have you participating in our community. Just start with step one and the next step after. You will be back again in no time.
Thank you, Scott!
Your encouragement is so helpful! One step at a time, here I come!
Nakina
We all have our work cut out for us!! I can relate to your “take.” Taking the time to grieve your grandmother’s death may arise unexpectedly. There’s no timetable for grief.
In the meantime, take your time! Take frequent pauses to appreciate the moments we still have.
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Hi, Kate!
I’m so glad you understand. Grief does have its own timetable, and each time, it’s a different experience. I’ve been surprised at how still and quiet I find myself. I just want to jump back in, but then the time has passed, and the afternoon is gone. I have to keep reminding myself it is okay. There is plenty of time for this experience. It is important, too.
You’re a great friend, Kate!
Nakina